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When it comes to sending messages many people freak out.
They want to say online dating sites give you profiles to work with.
Three sentences are all you need to write in a first message.
This establishes your interest and initiates conversation.
In the modern world of the internet, where basically anyone can connect with anyone, our most prominent tech giants from the world of social media have to work hard to fend off creepy users from us normal folk.
Which is exactly why Facebook introduced the nifty 'message request' filter; so that we don't have to read incessant messages from spammy accounts along the likes of "Hi", "Hey sexy" "Hellooooo", "Hey why u not wana talk?Good luck out there, and may the words be with you![image: via Joi Ito on flickr] Ready for conscious, like-minded individuals you really want to meet?", "Marry me and I will take gd care of u" etc etc, on the daily.But did you know that Instagram has exactly the same function?Thus making an introduction easier and far less intimidating.