This will help remind you that you need to get her out on a date, not waste time becoming her texting buddy.The High-Status Filter also helps when you’re feeling anxious and waiting for her to reply to your messages and she’s taking longer than you want. But would you waste gas, waste time, and put stress on the engine?
The first thing you need to know is that learning how to text a girl is not like learning math. Most guys won’t bother reading a post like this, and so you’ll be way ahead of them and have an unfair advantage.
In other words, when you learn that 1 1 = 2, you don’t need to learn anything else to understand it better. Texting is more like learning how to speak another language, or play an instrument, or learning a sport. With that said, let’s dive into the five principles of texting.
Have you ever met a girl and you were both clearly interested in seeing each other again, but for some reason you never got her out on the first date? She gave you her number, you started texting each other, but then something weird happened…It’s simple. When you learn the rules of the game, you can play to win.
You didn’t know how to keep her interested in you over text long enough to get her out on a date. texting is like a big mystery for a lot of us guys. Once you learn the “secret structure” of flirting over text, it’s like having a superpower…
Principle #1 – You must think about things from her viewpoint – You probably don’t realize what the daily reality of an attractive girl is.
She only has so much available attention, and everyone wants a piece of it. I means that she’s not going to respond to your texts just because you want her to.If you give her a spike of positive feelings with your texts and THEN ask her out…that’s like heating up the metal and then bending it. When you ask her out while she’s feeling good about you, the chances of her saying yes are much higher.She always has options, and so she doesn’t “have” to reply to your texts if they don’t spark her interest.Principle #2 – Make her feel something – Women make decisions about who to give their attention to based on how to they feel in the moment.It makes sense to heat the pipe up first so it bends easily, right?