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She wants to be the only person in your life, so she methodically attempts to alienate you from everyone you care about.

But sometimes one becomes popular for all the wrong reasons, like this ‘advice’ thread posted by user stfushifa.You can already tell it’s going to be a head-scratcher after reading post number one, and it goes to show that you certainly shouldn’t trust everything you read online. Like I mentioned, it’s flattering when someone thinks you’re the shit, but don’t believe the hype. Most of us can tell when we’re being flirted with, but an insecure woman assumes every conversation you have with someone of the opposite sex is going to lead to you dumping her for an upgrade, so she always swoops in to intervene. A little is fine and perfectly normal, but you should be able to tell when she’s moving into bunny-boiler territory.She’ll make you feel like you just left your baby in the grocery store.

Relationships are all about give and take and establishing boundaries.

But she’s not bringing anything to the table, and you’ll get bored pretty quickly.

Sometimes we’re too busy to answer right away, and then we forget.

Other replies range from dismissing the thread as just ‘a joke’ to saying the backlash would be different if the genders were reversed.

Regardless of who made the post, emotional abuse is never funny, and relationships need to be reciprocal.

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