If you hit a breaking point, there’s nothing wrong with putting your thoughts out there and letting him know where you’re coming from.If you reach that point, just make sure you are clear on what you really want yourself, say what you need to say and be done with the conversation.
The reason I started caring less is because he was not being that considerate about our plans (i.e. When I care less, he tries harder and puts in more effort which causes me to end up liking him more again.Maybe my situation is unusual, but in general , after several dates, is it okay for a girl ask a guy to hang out sometimes?Sooner or later he will figure it out and, as long as you’re patient, there’s a good chance he could get into a stable relationship with you.On the other hand, it can take some guys longer than others to figure out what they want, so you need to have a good sense of how patient you want to be.When it comes to people, it doesn’t matter what you think people should respond to – it only matters what they actually do respond to.
If you like this guy, go with what seems to be working best with him – give him space and let him put the effort in.
Too often I see girls smothering or nagging a guy when he doesn’t do what they want him to.
That always results in the guy becoming more withdrawn.
Or, should she keep letting the guy initiate plans until they are actually in a relationship? The situation that you’re describing actually illustrates something that I’ve talked about before.
In previous posts, I’ve talked about how when a guy is being flaky, doesn’t text back, or isn’t doing something you want him to do, the worst response is to become needy.
(If your wife left you due to your enormous sex drive and huge cock give me a shout- love you to join in on a 3sum) ps I d love to know if you wank and what you think of!