In these cases, you need a healthy dose of realism.
Then why are you doing it for the random (albiet hot) guy who got your number at the bar last night?Would you interrupt your studies for the big exam tomorrow to check a text that you suspect is from your mom, asking how your day was?A final note: if a guy seems to be playing games with you, artificially delaying his responses or skipping texts (yes, guys do this stuff too sometimes), I still suggest replying authentically and realistically. But after 4 or 5 late and unexplained texts, feel free to ignore him. This is a win/win because creating and maintaining this kind of attraction is exactly what he wants as well.
This is why I wrote the book below, to give you what you want as fast as possible!
Then why do you feel the need to do it with your cute coworker who you really like and suspect might be into you?
Treat these men like the mere friends or acquaintances that they are, until they become something more - at which point text games won't be necessary anyway.
I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men.
If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.
If a girl wants to send me a nude pic, I won’t stop her but I will let her know right after she shouldn’t have done that! You: Sounds good maybe I will see you out tonight Jason: Okay Jason: wait, what did you hear??? This “hook” basically means you bait the message with information he wants to know.