This is because kissing doesn’t mean the same thing in Asia – in the West it’s ‘ok’ to make out with guys in the club, but in Asia doing that would have her labeled a dirty girl.
If a bunch of Westerns go out to the club and one of the girls meets a guy she likes and is making out with him then the rest of the group won’t judge her too badly for it.
that she is committing more to the interaction than she may be comfortable with.
I’ve found that it’s best to keep from going for the make out until I have her back at my place.
Most of my experience is in China, unraveling the mystery of Chinese women, and I’ve found that there are a lot of differences between dating in China as compared to the West.
In particular, there are seven key differences that stand out over and above the rest.
Unless you have been under a rock for the last ten years, you’ve undoubtedly heard of “pickup” and “pickup artists”.
In the West, pickup has introduced and encouraged the use of “negs”.
In the West guys will typically try to ‘one up’ you by talking shit when you’re with girls – it’s straight up school yard game.
At other times they’ll just claim that the girl is their girlfriend, even though it isn’t.
Depending on the place, kissing in the West isn’t a sure sign that the interaction will lead to sex, but in Asia it is a much better sign that it could, so if an Asian girl is willing to kiss you she is conscious of two things, 1.
that other will think she is having sex or will have sex with you, and 2.
Asians almost never break rapport, they merely become neutral, which has a lot to do with saving face for yourself and the other person involved.