When you write a dating advice column, one of the inevitable questions that comes up is the idea of inexperience.
They become intimidated by women whom they fear have more experience than they do.
They become too afraid to approach , never mind people they’re attracted to.
If you venture into any Forever Alone or incel community like /r9k/, you’ll see hundreds of people lamenting how much sex they’ve never had and how the world is conspiring against them.
That’s not taking ownership of being socially inexperienced; that’s making it the core of your identity and letting it overtake your life.
In reality, it’s the constant fairly small; the average man has around 6 sexual partners in his lifetime and usually loses his virginity between the ages of 17 to 24.
In fact, the younger you are, the odds higher are that you’re actually going to have fewer partners than previous generations.
Of course, if you’re wearing your inexperience like a shame tarp, then, it’s hardly surprising that women are going to reject you, isn’t it?
9 times out of 10, the problem women have with inexperience isn’t the .
Women – supposedly – won’t date a man with little or no dating experience.
Of course that then leads to the question of just For a lot of men, the anxiety surrounding their dating inexperience can be overwhelming.
They set themselves up for failure by looking for reasons why others couldn’t possibly like them or why they couldn’t improve, and wait for the Universe to deliver instead.