In the same way that an attractive stranger may catch your eye from across the room at a party, someone’s profile picture is the first thing you notice about them.
On e Harmony, all you initially see of your matches are their name and their profile picture – meaning that that’s all you have to go on before choosing whether or not to learn more about a particular match.
And, no, you can’t just crop someone out of a photo in the hopes that no one will notice. and it makes it look like you’re trying to hide something.
Stick to a photo where you’re the only one in the frame. Okay – so now you know what to avoid when choosing the right photo for your online dating profile.
So why is your inbox not lighting up with responses from prospective soul mates?
The chances are, your profile is missing one key element: the perfect profile picture.
Whether it’s because the picture is out of focus, the resolution is too low, or your eyes appear to have been possessed by the devil (good ole indoor flash will do that to you), it won’t make a suitable profile picture.
Selfies A selfie – a picture very obviously taken by the person in the photograph – may be right for your Facebook wall or the My Space page you had in uni, but it’s best to cover your online dating profile with them.
Before we get to the part where we tell you about the qualities of a good profile picture, let’s first review some of the things we know DON’T work when choosing a photo.
Some of them may seem a little obvious, but there are definitely a few qualities that you may not have thought of when choosing your own profile picture: Fuzzy or bad-quality photos First thing’s first: any photo where you can’t really make out the person’s face is a definite no-no.
Keep your clothes on You may think that showing off your six-pack or your ample cleavage may win you lots of attention from matches, but the opposite tends to happen.
Users whose profile picture features them topless or underdressed (say, in a swimsuit at the beach, or fresh from the gym) tend to get fewer visits from matches.
We’ve also included the traits of less successful profile pictures so you can avoid making the same mistakes.