Then picture the millions more 40- and 50-something men and women who are buying into the belief that it's just too late for them to be in a happy, fulfilling romantic relationship.
article reported, "79 million baby boomers, about 26 percent of this country's population, will be redefining what it means to be older." Today, in 2013, this statement may be proving to be true.
The healthier, harder working and simply younger-seeming face of middle age and senior men and women is something worth acknowledging.
When we accept the fact that some of the people we're attracted to aren't always the ones who treat us the best, we are better able to be open to people who are different from our "type." A woman in her 50s realized that her whole life she'd only dated men who were unsuccessful, struggled financially, and who she somehow wound up supporting.
This dynamic fit with her identity growing up: Her father had called her "the son he never had" and pressured her to become a self-reliant businesswoman.
An important concept to keep in mind when dating is that we aren't always attracted for the right reasons.
Relationships tend to fail when we seek out and pair up with people whose defenses and negative characteristics perfectly complement our own.After seeking the same sort of partner for years, it can be difficult to tell if we are attracted to someone for the right or wrong reasons.One helpful approach is to enlist the help of friends.And a generation that refuses to take on the stigmas of old age and give up vital aspects of themselves in the process? One of the worst of these stigmas is that a person can be "too old to fall in love." The 2009 census showed that of the 96 million Americans who are single, 17 percent of them are over 65.Imagine these 16.2 million people writing off the possibility of spending the rest of their days with someone they love.They've also learned a great deal about the people they've chosen.